I passionately believe that hiring me as your Divorce Coach can actually save you money – big money! I often find people resistant to paying for specialized professional services during their separation and divorce, because they feel that the legal costs are already overwhelming them. There are some very helpful divorce specialists that can save you money in the long-run, which I always recommend before the lawyers get involved! A Divorce Coach can honestly help you minimize your overall divorce costs – the financial cost, the toll on your health and well-being, and the often extensive damage to your family.

How can a Divorce Coach save you money?

1. Avoiding common mistakes and blind spots.

Often in the middle of a marriage breakdown, it is hard to see other perspectives, except your own. As an outsider looking in on your situation I can much more easily see what you are avoiding, ignoring and not aware of. I can help you navigate away from the common mistakes and point out your blind spots with honesty and understanding.

2. Helping you find the correct path through.

Most couples going through a separation and divorce have never been through it before. Often friends and family try and help by giving advice and sharing stories of how a friend of a friend had a horrible divorce. Misunderstood ideas and just plain incorrect information can cause you to spend a lot of time and money doing things that are not helpful for you! I can help you find your best pathway through a separation and divorce because I help people successfully navigate similar issues all the time. I share knowledge and resources that will be tailored to your unique situation and will help you avoid wasting your energy, money and time on things that will not help your situation or outcomes.

3. Help you become a more credible divorce client.

I make you a more credible client for the other divorce professionals you will be hiring, so you spend less money and time on things that are unnecessary or out of their comfort zone. Going to the right professional for what you actually need, and only what you need, and only using those professionals you do need, is as important when hourly rates are high. I help you sort out what you need, how you can get it and from who, most efficiently. We can then get you organized for effective meetings that will minimize your costs.

4. Keep you focused on your intentions and avoid costly detours.

One of the most important functions I perform as a Divorce Coach is to keep you focused on what outcomes you want and how you are more likely to get them while being your ‘best self’. Staying true to your values and behaving well really does help create better outcomes for everyone. If you look back at this time in your life 5 years from now, will you be proud of how your divorce went? Will you feel shame, or will you still be fully engaged in an ongoing conflict?

I am very passionate about people having better outcomes, more timely resolutions and being able to maintain a reasonable relationship with their ex-partner. The benefits of coaching to your health and well-being, your finances, your time and your energy level can really add up. I do wish that I had found a divorce coach, like myself, to help me out when I navigated my own separation. If Divorce Coaches had existed back then – finding one with my best interests at heart and the experience to help me go through the process with more ease, would have been wonderful.

Please contact me to discuss how my divorce coaching works. I do offer a strategy session and would be honoured to talk with you about your situation.

I also manage a private Facebook group where we can connect and you can be kept up to date with challenges, products and all sorts of other resources. Please join me in ‘Growing Through Divorce‘.

Take good care of yourself!

Pam

Pam Mirehouse
The Separation Project Coach in Dundas